Your Honor, I RISE.
Trauma-informed strategy and emotional stabilization for women
navigating high-conflict or narcissistic divorce and post-divorce abuse.
You’re not “just getting divorced.”
You’re moving through an emotionally unsafe, manipulative, weaponized process
created by someone who needs control more than they need peace.
You never thought he could turn like this —
not until the moment he realized he was losing control.
Now you’re living in the aftermath:
confusion
intimidation
emotional exhaustion
fear of his next move
panic about the future
pressure to stay strong for the kids
legal overwhelm
constant self-doubt
And beneath all of it…
You’re exhausted from trying to look stable while holding back a tidal wave of trauma.
I see you.
I know this.
I’ve lived this.
And you don’t have to do this alone.
Introducing:
Your Honor, I Rise
A structured, strategic, trauma-informed program for women navigating high-conflict divorce or post-separation abuse.
This is not “divorce coaching.”
This is a specialized stabilization and strategy model designed to help you rise through the most psychologically demanding chapter of your life.
✔ Nervous system stabilization
✔ Understanding narcissistic & coercive control patterns
✔ Communication strategies that end the chaos
✔ Documentation coaching judges actually respect
✔ Mediation & testimony preparation
✔ Emotional strength when he tries to collapse you
✔ Identity rebuilding
✔ Pathways to clarity, safety, and confidence
This is where emotional safety becomes strategy.
What You Get Inside the Program:
MODULE 1 — Know the Pattern
Narcissism, coercive control, DARVO, gaslighting, manipulation
→ You stop reacting and start predicting.
MODULE 2 — Nervous System Regulation
Trauma physiology + practical tools for staying calm
→ You become credible, composed, and clear.
MODULE 3 — Documentation That Wins Cases
Patterns judges understand.
Records attorneys can actually use.
MODULE 4 — Communication Mastery
Email templates, gray-rock scripts, reactive-diffusion strategies.
MODULE 5 — Mediation & Court Presence
How to stay steady under stress.
How to avoid taking the bait.
How to stay calm even when he performs.
MODULE 6 — Identity Rebuild
You reclaim your voice, power, self-trust, and intuition.
Who this is for/
Who this is not for
This program IS for women who:
-Are in a high-conflict, narcissistic, or coercive-control divorce
-Are exhausted from the chaos and want clarity
-Feel triggered by legal proceedings or his behavior
-Want to stabilize emotionally for mediation, court, or custody
-Want to understand the psychological pattern driving his behavior
-Need support beyond what their attorney is trained to give
-Want to show up composed, credible, and strategic
-Are ready to rebuild themselves from the inside out
This program is NOT for women who:
-Are in a low-conflict or cooperative divorce
-Want therapy instead of coaching
-Are looking for legal advice (I don’t provide that)
-Want someone to fix the situation for them
-Are not ready to take ownership of their emotional regulation
-Do not want to explore trauma-informed tools
The Science: Why This Works
Research in trauma physiology, domestic abuse dynamics, and high-conflict divorce shows:
✔ Dysregulation decreases credibility in mediation and court
✔ Nervous system regulation increases cognitive clarity
✔ Judges respond better to concise, pattern-based documentation
✔ Understanding coercive control reduces reactivity
✔ Trauma-informed preparation improves courtroom presence
✔ Stabilized parents make better decisions for themselves and their kids
This program is designed around:
Polyvagal Theory
Trauma pattern mapping
High-conflict personality research
Coercive control frameworks
Evidence-informed communication strategies
Nervous system stabilization techniques
This isn’t just emotional support.
It is strategic, evidence-based reconstruction.
WAYS TO WORK WITH ME:
1. Your Honor, I Rise (Signature Program)
A structured, guided pathway through the entire high-conflict divorce process.
Best for women needing intensive stabilization + strategy.
2. Strategic Divorce Prep Sessions
One-on-one deep strategy for affidavits, mediation, hearings, or crisis moments.
Ideal for targeted, urgent support.
3. VIP Private Support (Limited Availability)
High-frequency, high-touch stabilization and strategy while your case unfolds.
For women who need ongoing, near-real-time guidance.
Exact pricing is not listed publicly.
When you apply, you’ll receive program details, options, and availability.
All models are designed to support women in the most emotionally demanding chapter of their lives.
You rise the moment you stop trying to survive him
and start learning to trust yourself again.
👉 Apply to join Your Honor, I Rise
👉 Request a consultation
👉 Download the High-Conflict Divorce Checklist
FAQ:
Q: Is this therapy?
A: No. This is trauma-informed coaching designed to support your emotional regulation and legal-adjacent functioning.
Q: Can you talk to my attorney?
A: Yes—if you request it, I can provide non-clinical collateral support within ethical limits.
Q: What if I’m already divorced but still dealing with him?
A: Absolutely. Many of my clients experience post-divorce abuse, harassment, and ongoing control.
Q: What if my divorce isn’t “officially” high-conflict yet?
A: If your body says it is, it is.
Q: Can you help with custody?
A: I help stabilize YOU so you show up credible and composed in all custody-related matters.
Testimonials:
“I walked into mediation calm for the first time in my life.”
I didn’t take the bait. I didn’t collapse. I felt steady.
— K., Minneapolis
“The court believed me because I finally believed me.”
I understood the pattern and could communicate clearly.
— A., Denver
“I stopped reacting and he lost his power.”
I finally understood what was happening and how to respond.
— J., Chicago
“Stacy helped me stabilize when the chaos was unbearable.”
I could parent again. I could think again. I could breathe again.
— M., Minneapolis
My Story:
I’ve lived through a high-conflict divorce that changed my life.
I know what it feels like to be terrified, confused, overwhelmed, and doubting everything you once believed
about yourself and what you thought to be "fair" in the world.
I know the shame.
I know the panic.
I know the isolation.
I know the moments you think you won’t survive.
I know the moments you wonder if you are failing your kids.
And I also know what it means to RISE.
Today, I blend:
My clinical training
My trauma-informed expertise
My lived experience
Hundreds of hours supporting women just like you
to give you a path that is strategic, stabilizing, and deeply empowering.
You don’t have to survive him.
You get to rebuild you.
👉 Apply to join Your Honor, I Rise
👉 Request a consultation
👉 Download the High-Conflict Divorce Checklist
Therapy Sessions
Our licensed therapists provide one-on-one sessions to help you navigate personal challenges, build resilience, and find emotional balance.
Couples Counseling
Working with couples to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and strengthen relationships, our therapists use tailored strategies to build trust.
Family Therapy
Family therapy focuses on improving family dynamics, resolving misunderstandings, and enhancing emotional connections. Our therapists use specialized.